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Thursday, August 18th
I've been struggling with what to write here since Pat passed away.
I guess, first of all, thank you for all the thoughtful emails
regarding the news. We've been so very grateful to have so many
people reach out with their thoughts & hearts.
Thank you.
We had a very special funeral service for Pat. The programs were
stunning, filled with pictures of Pat & her favorite flowers.
The church was full beyond capacity with family & friends. There
were two eulogies. One, by her son-in-law, who managed to
encapsulate her essence by sharing his take on Pat's relationships
with others. His words moved the whole room. And the other
eulogy; her youngest brother told sweet & entertaining stories of when
she was growing up ~ what she was like as a big sister & how she
developed her close connections with family & nature. Chris put
together a beautiful slide show that was timed with some of Pat's
favorite songs & her grandchildren played & sang "Lean On Me", by Bill
Withers. It was all very touching.
We've spent a lot of time with our family & friends during the last 2
& a half weeks. It's been a time of bonding, mourning & healing
& I am inspired & moved by the people I've spent this time with.
We have only just recently gotten back into a somewhat normal routine.
Of course, things will never be the same, but life must go on.
And as far as normal goes, it's not quite there either. Our
kitchen is in the midst of a major renovation. This is what it
looked like about 2 days before the renos started:

And this is what it looks like today:

Before:

Today:

It is somewhat dusty & dangerous to walk around in the house at
present. There are cords & drop clothes & bits of plaster here &
there. But, the floor is going to be put in right away so hurray
for that.
We have set up a temporary kitchen in the garage. It's kind of
like camping sans the bird drop splattered picnic table that seems to
be at every campsite & a cooler full of melted ice & leaked ham juice.
In fact, we aren't really roughing it at all. We have a fridge,
a coffee maker, a microwave & lots of tables for washing & prepping:


So it's not that bad, but the garage kitchen "charm" is wearing off as
the days go by & I will be ecstatic to have an indoor kitchen again.
During all the upstir, we decided
to paint our bathroom a metallic color. Well actually, the plan
to repaint it has been in the works for a long time. It was just
a matter of finding the right metallic tone to go with the little
mosaic tiles & silver sink. We went with warm silver & my mom
came over to give me a hand.
Here's the color before, which is a pale pink:

And here it is today:

I'm absolutely in love with the brilliance of the room. It just
sparkles!
So that's what's going on around here. I was going to give my
studio a good thorough dust & clean today, but there's a guy sanding
the floor right at this moment & clouds of dust floating through the
hallway & into each room so it will wait at least one more day. |